Yahrzeit is the annual anniversary of a loved one’s passing, observed in Jewish tradition. It is a time for remembering the deceased and reflecting on their life and legacy. The word "Yahrzeit" comes from the Yiddish language, meaning "year time." This observance holds significant emotional and spiritual importance, as it is an opportunity for the bereaved to honor their loved one's memory through various customs and rituals.

The Yahrzeit date is calculated based on the Hebrew calendar, typically falling on the same Hebrew date each year as the date of the loved one's death. For example, if someone passed away on the 10th of Tishrei, Yahrzeit would be observed on the 10th of Tishrei every year. If you are unsure how to convert the Gregorian date to the Hebrew date, we recommend www.hebcal.com. They have a date converter as well as calendars that you can download to your phone or computer.

Observing Yahrzeit involves several meaningful customs and rituals:

• Lighting a Yahrzeit candle: A special 24-hour candle is lit at sunset of the Yahrzeit day to honor the memory of the deceased.
• Reciting prayers: The Kaddish, a mourner’s prayer, is traditionally recited during synagogue services. Other prayers or psalms can also be read in private remembrance.
• Visiting the gravesite: Many choose to visit the loved one’s grave, where they may say prayers, leave stones, and reflect.
• Giving charity: Making a donation in the loved one’s name is a common way to honor their memory.
• Remembering and sharing: Family members often come together to share stories and memories of the deceased, fostering a sense of connection and continuity.

These traditions can vary by community and individual preferences, and contemporary observances may include virtual gatherings or other adaptations when family members are not living close to each other.